i was wondering how u add a server to the list i see no add functions to do this also i registered last night to forums an main page an havent gotten a confirmation in my email .

The login link at the top of the main site will allow you to create a new account for your shard. You'll need to be able to recive email from us for this to work though. Check your junk email box and make sure your forum registration didn't end up in there

i have checked spam folder in email an nothing has showed up yet . should i retry to register ?? i dont think it will let me use same email though . my email is r_lewellyn2000@yahoo.com

It looks like yahoo isn't accepting main from us for some reason. I've had trouble with them in the past as well.
Do you have another email address you could try?

Shard list registration will likely fail too